Showing posts with label Life. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Life. Show all posts

Yes, this blog has come all the way from Coimbatore - India, and that too after a long pause - which I should have avoided or rather, I shall avoid in the future. In this blog, to narrate the real challenges that I encounter after coming back to the home town - after spending nearly 4 years, yes its just 4 years out of India.

Things are changed in my OLD (Now very new) office. Almost all are provided with the laptops, centralized HR team, centralized payroll system, centralized time office management, centralized billing pattern, computation of billing recovery etc., etc., The filing (client records) procedures are different than that of what I have seen / done 4 years ago. Almost everything is system driven. There is a minimum fees criteria for every assignment.The T & E system also system based and policies are different. More imporatantly, the pay scale is different. Barring a few, almost all staff members were new.

Having said that, I notice some of the unchanged (rather will never change easily) in the SAME office. Yes, the attitude, friendliness and mechanisms. The culture of calling people at all levels with the prefix of "SIR" - in my humble personal opinion which impliedly generates some sort of gap between the persons / team mates. This is typical Indian office culture, that I want to strip out. And, if I don't use the term "SIR" and call them with their names (yes, its their own names only), there starts the problem of disrespect to the other person. But, I understand from my little experience, what the people believe in the western / other asian countries (corporates), is calling with their names increase bondage of the persons. For e.g. I used to call the US Finance Controller and Asia AMET Finance Controllers with their names - no matter how old are they!

I'm just wondering, if I never got a chance to go abroad, I would also be in the same league. Therefore, I'm facing bit difficulties RIGHT NOW.. Hope things changes.

I came across this particular mail as forwards, but worth sharing. Of course, I didn't vouch for the authenticity of the origin of the message - whether this was a real speech by Chetan Bhagat - BUT something good that worth sharing. Here we go:

Speech by Chetan Bhagat at Symbiosis ...must read...

Don't just have career or academic goals. Set goals to give you a balanced, successful life. I use the word balanced before successful. Balanced means ensuring your health, relationships, mental peace are all in good order.

There is no point of getting a promotion on the day of your breakup. There is no fun in driving a car if your back hurts. Shopping is not enjoyable if your mind is full of tensions.

"Life is one of those races in nursery school where you have to run with a marble in a spoon kept in your mouth. If the marble falls, there is no point coming first. Same is with life where health and relationships are the marble. Your striving is only worth it if there is harmony in your life. Else, you may achieve the success, but this spark, this feeling of being excited and alive, will start to die...................

One thing about nurturing the spark - don't take life seriously. Life is not meant to be taken seriously, as we are really temporary here. We are like a pre-paid card with limited validity. If we are lucky, we may last another 50 years. And 50 years is just 2,500 weekends. Do we really need to get so worked up? ................

It's ok, bunk a few classes, scoring low in couple of papers, goof up a few interviews, take leave from work, fall in love, little fights with your spouse. We are people, not programmed devices........." :)

"Don't be serious, be sincere."!!

Food for thought – with pure fun J ENJOY!!

A big city lawyer went duck hunting in rural North Cowra. He shot and dropped a bird, but it fell into a farmer's field on the other side of a fence. As the lawyer climbed over the fence, an elderly farmer drove up on his tractor and asked him what he was doing. The litigator responded, “I shot a duck and it fell in this field, and now I'm going to retrieve it."

The old farmer Peter replied, "This is my property, and you are not coming over here."

The indignant lawyer said, "I am one of the best trial lawyers in Australia and, if you don’t let me get that duck, I'll sue you and take everything you own."

The old farmer smiled and said, "Apparently, you don't know how we settle disputes in North Cowra. We settle small disagreements like this with the 'Three Kick Rule.'

The lawyer asked, "What is the 'Three Kick Rule'?"

The Farmer replied, "Well, because the dispute occurs on my land, I get to go first. I kick you three times and then you kick me three times and so on back and forth until someone gives up."The lawyer quickly thought about the proposed contest and decided that he could easily take the old codger. He agreed to abide by the local custom.

The old farmer slowly climbed down from the tractor and walked up to the attorney. His first kick planted the toe of his heavy steel-toed work boot into the lawyer's groin and dropped him to his knees!

His second kick to the midriff sent the lawyer's last meal gushing from his mouth. The lawyer was on all fours when the farmer’s third kick to his rear end, sent him face-first into a fresh cow pie.Summoning every bit of his will and remaining strength the lawyer very slowly managed to get to his feet. Wiping his face with the arm of his jacket, he said, "Okay, you old fart. Now it's my turn."

The old farmer smiled and said, "Nah, I give up. You can have the duck."

Moral:

When you are educated, you’ll believe only half of what you hear.

When you’re intelligent, you know which half.

The greatest salesman in the world


I am just reproducing this great blog from my ex-boss!! Really worth reading..

This weekend's light reading (or viewing I should say) is something that my good friend, Subroto Bagchi, sent me some 8 years ago. Thanks Subroto for sharing something very inspirational.

This is the story of Bill Porter. Born in the US in 1932, Bill moved to Portland at an early age where he lives now. He was born with cerebral palsy and lost his father early. They told him he would never work and nobody would employ him. He refused to go on disability and convinced Watkins Inc. to give him a job as a door to door salesman.

He needed help to dress. He could not drive. His speech was slurred. He was often in pain. And what did he do - he became the top selling salesman in Watkins. He was hit by a car in 1998 and broke his hip. He could no longer do door to door - Instead he has turned into an online salesman. (visit his online shop here). Some 50 years after they told him nobody would give him a job, he's selling fine, thank you. And when asked how he overcame all his obstacles, he says I don't have any obstacles.

Shelly Brady first met Bill as a teenager when she worked for him to help him deliver his products. Since then she has become a close friend and now she is a motivational speaker. She has written a book - Ten Things I learned from Bill Porter. You can read an extract from the book here.

In 1995, The Oregonian, wrote a story on Bill Porter in the newspaper. that brought Bill into the public limelight. He was featured in The Readers Digest and ABC's 20/20. He was the subject of a made for TV film on TNT called Door to Door. The film won six Emmy awards.

There's a film on Bill Porter in Shelly's website. Its 30 minutes long, but a fascinating watch. Grab a cup of coffee, make yourself comfortable and watch it. Trust me; you will be inspired, for Bill Porter is a remarkable man. Click here to watch it

Its well said : It best to go broke before 30. "We still have time to recover" .. I guess its great advice.. and personally I experienced toooooo..

Its really bliss if we could success before 30 also - in business.. Of course, I've experinced this toooo..

There is one horrible management theory which goes as:

"Workers work hard enough to not be fired, and
owners pay just enough so that workers won't quit"

And if you look at the pay scales of most companies, again I would say there is a degree of truth in this statement.

- Courtesy "Rich Dad Poor Dad - Robert Kiyosaki"

The world is filled with more talented poor people.
All too often, they're poor or struggle financially or earn less than they are capable of, not because of wht they know but because of what they don not know...

The other truth is:

We can't change other people /character - an old saying goes , " You can't teach an old dog new tricks". Unless a person is used to changing, it's hard to change..

This is my New Year 2007 post.. sound interesting???????????????????

Hesitating to say NO when our friends ask to do somethin.. which WE feel unimportant?? Here's the way.........

Whenever you say YES to one unimportant things, you are saying NO to your own important thing... of your career...

So, learn how to say NO ..with a smiling face... nothing wrong in it.. but pretty difficult I do agree...

Being not rich is not twist of our fate BUT its non-usage of brain - EFFECTIVELY..

Proper physical exercise increases our chances for health and,
Proper mental excercise increases our chances for wealth...
Laziness decreases both health & wealth!!

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